The End (And Beginning) of My Gay Marriage
10 min readSep 11, 2020
Content warning: medical trauma, cardiac arrest, CPR, spousal death
“Babe….Something’s wrong…I think you need to take me to the hospital.”
Ray said this from the bathroom while I was still in bed. He was getting cleaned up to go to church and lead the liturgy like any other Sunday. He and just one or two other people would be in the sanctuary to film the service…